How To Stay Joyful During The Holiday Season

When we think about the holidays, usually it is a time of happiness and joy; whereas for others it is a time of grief and sadness. Loved ones have passed on and Christmas dinners just are not the same anymore. The joy of opening gifts, getting unexpected surprises, socializing with family you have not seen throughout the whole year and whatever else comes to mind just is not valued the same as it used to be. Whether you are travelling or staying home for the holidays, you want to ensure that first-and-foremost, you remain joyful.

So, how does one stay happy during this holiday season? Good question because I am writing this article with myself and countless individuals I have met throughout the year — through volunteering, engaging in community and civic activities, co-workers, family, friends and acquaintances. So again I ask: how do you stay happy during the holiday season? I have devised a list of what things work for me and help keep me in check when times may be more difficult than others.

1. If you are alone for the holidays, take yourself out on a date. You do not have to spend tons of money or splurge, you can simply head to the cinema, your favorite bookstore or go for a stroll in the park. Most towns also have Christmas meals at the local church or VFW for those spending the holidays alone.
2. Call over a friend or make a new friend. I’m not saying go to the bar, get drunk and bring home all your other new drunk buddies. Head to a local business and spark up a conversation with someone new. If not, call over a friend and spend some quality time over a meal or catching up on new things.
3. If you’re invited over someone’s home, ask if there is anything you can contribute to the menu. Again, do not go all out and buy a $50 cake. Something as simple as pastries, a baked pie or making a small entree tray will do — just be sure to ask if there are any food restrictions or allergies their guests may have.
4. Do not feel guilty or obligated to get someone a gift if you cannot afford to. The simplest gesture is being there and spending quality time with friends/family. Too often, our society has created the norm that you have to give a gift and spend a ridiculous amount of money on someone just to show how much you care. If you do, I would re-evaluate who you family and friends really are.
5. Attend a holiday event. Since I am in New Jersey, most people either travel to community theaters to see The Nutcracker or Radio City Music Hall for the Rockettes. More so, most towns host a Christmas tree lighting event that often have music, hot cocoa and sometimes Christmas giveaways from Santa, himself.

I wish that you have a wonderful and joyous holiday!